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Dear Website Visitor,
Advanced Romance enhances chances for life-changing love by identifying 16 formerly true romantic rules that are now at least partly false. There’s the antiquated rule we call The Grass-is-Greener Misdemeanor. It deconstructs the plethora of modern pressures pushing us to pooh-pooh the love we do have. Whereas The Failure-If-Not-Forever Fallacy proves why you don’t have to consider your love a failure just because it doesn’t last until death do you part.
The Excess-Sex-Industrial Complex concludes that being attracted to someone doesn’t mean you should have to try to go to bed with them. While the The Hurtin’-by-Subvertin’-Flirtin’ Paradox proves that you can be Platonic friends with people to whom you are attracted, no matter what the movie When Harry Met Sally contends. And motivating it all, The Evolution-Confusion Bruisin’, illustrates that evolution is desperately trying to find us a long-lasting mate if only we, and society, will get out of the romantic way.
The reason these old rules are only partly true now is due to the expansion of women’s rights, the 50% divorce rate, birth control, and recent understandings of how evolution affects mating — among other new realities. AR then transforms the rules, changing them into exciting new freedoms and amplified opportunities for authentic love.
It is the dramatizing of the two relationship prisons — The Excess-Sex-Industrial Complex and The Hurtin’-by-Subvertin’-Flirtin' Paradox — combined with the power of evolution and the social changes mentioned above, that reveals this liberating approach to long-lasting love. One aspect of it is the fact that wherever women and men who are attracted to each other are thrown together, there will be the chemistry and poetry of love. And this situation happens more and more as women are now almost everywhere all the time -- a fact not the case in the 1950s and before. Thus, while generally counseling a decreased amount of intercourse love, AR understands that today’s society yields a cornucopia of relatively Platonic, but still flirtatious, love energy. And how to harness that extra umph for greater joie de vivre, for stronger monogamies, or for more humane consensual nonmonogamies, is a part of the genius of Advanced Romance.
But how best to use this added energy is your choice. Or what you and your mate or mates choose. In today’s post-Puritan, post-Playboy world, almost every type of relationship is possible. You "just" need to figure out what is best for you. Which is tough but dooable, and involves transcending The Analysis Paralysis no-longer-true rule, and intensely studying love to find out what mating style is best for you.
Dr. David Buss, author of the worldwide bestseller, The Evolution of Desire, agrees, stating about Advanced Romance: “This book is absolutely terrific and I'm sure will be a big success. It contains many important insights that will be very useful to readers.”
But this is just scratching the surface of what we believe is the great depth of AR. The post-Puritan and post-Playboy reality has led to important new discoveries by many relationship geniuses. They include groundbreaking anthropologist Dr. Helen Fisher, aforementioned trailblazing evolutionist Dr. Buss, and iconoclast therapist Esther Perel. Advanced Romance weaves a long-needed synthesis of these and many other relationship experts, then synergizes them to uncover immense new opportunities for love.
Click on the following link to see a discussion of our book: (55) BLAINESWORLD show, 12.15.2021 - YouTube.
Advanced Romance could (should !) be the next bestseller in the Personal-Growth and Relationship-and-Love genres. Our 16 no-longer-true rules could (should !) become the vocabulary of much of love and romance in the future. Regardless, after reading AR you may find that your love-life, and love of life, are substantially enhanced, if not dramatically revolutionized.
Sincerely,
Lauren Eavarone
Bill Branyon
To order Advanced Romance click on this Amazon address:
Advanced Romance: Liberation from 16 Romantic Rules to Vastly Enhance Your Chances for Life-Changing Love: Eavarone LMFT, Lauren, Branyon MA, Bill: 9798540380881: Amazon.com: Books